out-laws.. i mean in-laws. maybe.

is there just some law that no matter how well you got along before the marriage and/or engagement as soon as vows are said it turns into a war? why didn't i get this memo?

my dear mil, sometimes is like a snake in the grass waiting to jump out and bite you. she will turn on you in the blink of an eye. even had the nerve to tell my husband that i havent included her in anything having to do with us moving into our home. BULLSHIT! she was invited to the housewarming party, she knew the exact date and time i was closing and that i was moving in that night, shes been invited to dinner here. there's always some story, and reason. i avoided her ONE DAY because she was trying to give us some gross furniture from her new boyfriends apartment. no thank you. he's a smoker, we arent. he's been a single man. see the problems? haha. she even got handed a key to our house, against my better judgement. she might see a side of us she never wanted to see when husband comes home. ;) use your key wisely.

on top of all this moving drama. which was quite an event anyway. she informs me that we (her, her new bf, & i) are all going together to get husband when he returns and spend sometime there on the beach. HOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLD the hell on. I am the one that has been deprived for over a year at that point. husband isn't meeting his new 'father' the day he gets home from a 13-14 month long deployment. he's meeting his wife, and a bed. and we don't want to spend time on the beach, the man wants to come see his house that he has never seen except for my crappy pictures off my cell phone that he gets. i'm going alone to get him, period end of story. i got my way for his r&r, i will get my way again. he's learning to walk a fine line between wife & mommy.

the best part is, we used to be really close. now i want to scream if i have to talk to her or go over there. i think partly because she has lost her mind when it comes to men. she did move this man in like a week after their first date. and she is trying to jump in my marriage. i married my husband, not her too. anytime we fight, its like she smells it and makes a bad situation worse by pissing us both off, jumping in it. maybe it all seems like evil torture methods and shes really just trying to be nice. but if this is nice i dont want any part of it. i would have never imagined it coming to this oh but here it is, the oh so common in law war.